I help you show up as the best version of yourself so you can have healthier, happier relationships.
Jason VanRuler is one of the most sought-after therapists on relationships, trauma and personal transformation. He has helped thousands show up as their best self, get connected and have exceptional relationships.
Jason has spoken on stages to thousands and specializes in topics like Trauma, Integrity, Burnout, and Relational Intimacy and Connection.
Jason has also been featured in renowned media outlets such as the New York Times, Fox News, and many others. He is also the author of the #1 Amazon Best Selling "Get Past Your Past, How Facing Your Broken Places Leads to True Connection,” with forward by Bob Goff.
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Get Past Your Past: How Facing Your Broken Places Leads to True Connection
Stop running from your past. Learn to forgive yourself and others. Embrace emotional and spiritual healing.
"[Jason] shows us how to move past our past by leading us along a path that ends in connection." –Bob Goff, New York Times bestselling author
Our pasts shape us and our futures in profound ways whether we know it or not. For some of us, our pasts can feel like heavy chains that we're dragging around with us forever.
As a licensed therapist with his own difficult past, Jason VanRuler provides compassionate encouragement, practical wisdom, and a hand to hold as he leads you to a place where healing from brokenness is not only real but attainable.
Get Past Your Past offers professional and personal knowledge to help you:
Vanquish the lie that you're the only one who struggles with a broken past.
Take achievable steps to overcome your circumstances.
Embrace the freedom that comes from sharing your testimony with others.
Learn to love and be loved in your most cherished relationships.
Cultivate authentic connection with those around you and with God.
It's time to confront your own past hurts and embark on your journey toward healing. Your brokenness is not the end of the story. It's time to heal.
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When you work with me, you’ll get
Honest, affirming, and compassionate coaching that drives actual impact in your life.
My approach lets you dig deep into your past, your present, and your future to unlock your impact.
Here’s how we dive in with my unique POV method:
PAST: We examine and identify impactful moments from your past to better understand how they have shaped your perspective and beliefs.
OWN: Together we help you own your current circumstances. We identify what is working, not working and what needs to change.
VISION: We cast a vision for the life you want to live, and start building a plan to get you to that life.
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“We were absolutely amazed with Jason’s approach. We have been to so many therapists that just didn’t get it. Jason did more work in one session than we got in MONTHS with any other therapist.”
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“Simply put, Jason has been a game changer in my life. I’ve never played so well or been so focused. He’s been amazing with athletes and a well kept secret.”
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“We just got home from our marriage intensive and both agree it was one of the most impactful weekends of our entire lives. We cannot recommend it enough.”
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“Jason’s “Same Team Retreat” was outstanding. This was not the typical boring, stuffy retreat. The morning flew by and we learned so much about each other and ourselves. We will definitely use the tools he gave us to better our marriage.”
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"Five stars doesn't do justice to the impact of Jason's intensive program. His comprehensive approach delved into every aspect of my struggles, leading to profound breakthroughs and lasting change."
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"Incredible! Jason's intensive program helped me confront and overcome challenges I've been grappling with for years. If you're ready to commit to your mental well-being, this program is a game-changer."
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"I am amazed by the transformation I experienced during Jason's intensive program. Their deep understanding and personalized approach fostered a safe space for healing and growth. Truly life-affirming."
I’m Jason VanRuler.
As a clinician, coach, dad, speaker, and writer, I help people to have the relationships they most desire and to utilize their past as a tool for their future. By working with leaders — whether it’s an executive, professional athlete, teacher, pastor, or performer, you name it — I give people the tools they need to positively impact their own lives and the lives of others around them.
